I make enough time to do things for myself every week.

I spend lots of time criticizing myself after an interaction with someone.

I would not be embarrassed if people knew certain things about me.

Sometimes I feel like I just waste a lot of time and don't get anywhere.

I take good enough care of myself.

It is usually best not to tell someone they bother you; it only causes fights and gets everyone upset.

I am happy about the way my family communicated when I was growing up.

Sometimes I don’t know how I really feel.

I am very satisfied with my intimate love life.

I’ve been feeling tired lately.

When I was growing up, my family liked to talk openly about problems.

I often look happy when I am sad or angry.

I am satisfied with the number and kind of relationships I have in my life.

Even if I had the time and money to do it, I would feel uncomfortable taking a vacation by myself.

I have enough help with everything that I must do every day.

I wish that I could accomplish a lot more than I do now.

My family taught me to express feelings and affection openly when I was growing up.

It is hard for me to talk to someone in authority (boss, teachers, etc.).

When I am in a relationship that becomes too confusing and complicated, I have no trouble getting out of it.

I sometimes feel pretty confused about who I am and where I want to go with my life.

I am satisfied with the way I take care of my own needs.

I am not satisfied with my career.

I usually handle my problems calmly and directly.

I hold back my feelings much of the time because I don’t want to hurt other people or have them think less of me.

I don’t feel like I’m in a rut very often.

I am not satisfied with my friendships.

When someone hurts my feelings or does something I don’t like, I have little difficulty telling them about it.

When a close friend or relative asks for my help more than I’d like, I usually say “yes” anyway.

I love to face new problems and am good at finding solutions for them.

I do not feel good about my childhood.

I am not concerned about my health a lot.

I often feel like no one really knows me.

I feel calm and peaceful most of the time.

I find it difficult to ask for what I want.

I don’t let people take advantage of me.

I am dissatisfied with at least one of my close relationships.

I make major decisions quite easily.

I don’t trust myself in new situations as much as I’d like.

I am very good at knowing when to speak up and when to go along with others’ wishes.

I wish I had more time away from my work.

I am as spontaneous as I’d like to be.

Being alone is a problem for me.

When someone I love is bothering me, I have no problem telling them so.

I often have so many things going on at once that I’m really not doing justice to any one of them.

I am very comfortable letting others into my life and letting them see the “real me”.

I apologize to others too much for what I say or do.

I have no problem telling people when I am angry with them.

There’s so much to do and not enough time.

I have few regrets about what I have done with my life.

I tend to think of others more than I do of myself.

More often than not, my life has gone the way I wanted it to.

People admire me because I’m so understanding of others, even when they do something that annoys me.

I am comfortable with my own sexuality.

I sometimes feel embarrassed by the behavior of those close to me.

The important people in my life know the “real me” and I am okay with them knowing.

I do my share of work and often do a bit more.

I do not feel that everything would fall apart without my efforts and attention.

I do too much for other people and then later wonder why I did so.

I am happy about the way my family coped with problems when I was growing up.

I wish that I had more people to do things with.