Relationships

29 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, 2 Comments

Sometimes you know a relationship must end.

When it becomes an obstacle for happiness instead of a source of happiness, and there is no longer a way or a will to fix it, then you must ask why you are in it. Ending relationships is a painful proposition. The emotions, the history, the friends and family you share it with, the fear … Continue reading »

22 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, Comments Off

The line between pain and bitterness.

There is fine line between hurt and deep bitterness towards individuals who have wounded us. It is important to learn how to deal with our pain, so that bitterness does not take root. Search for the silver lining. Even the worst situations have a positive aspect. It is always possible to get something positive out … Continue reading »

20 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, Comments Off

Tell her…

19 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, self-esteem, Comments Off

How you treat yourself is how you are inviting the world to treat you.

Treat yourself as a Queen and you’ll attract a King.

17 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, 2 Comments

It’s easier to breathe when you remove toxic people from your life.

You know this person.. The one who complains and vomits their life’s issues in your lap, but never takes a positive step to change anything. The one who is miserable and wants to make you miserable as well. The one who isn’t supportive of you in any way and will discourage you from following your … Continue reading »

13 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, Comments Off

Are you settling?

Signs you are settling for less in love and life: You are constantly drained. You’re always thinking, but rarely doing. You keep saying “someday”. You feel stuck or restless. You don’t feel supported. You can’t be you. You rationalize and make excuses. You are envious. You make dangerous compromises. You see your relationship as a … Continue reading »

07 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, Comments Off

Not worth the effort…

Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding you. Carrie Tell me your story.

06 Dec

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, self-esteem, 1 Comment

Self-hate is a dangerous problem.

At the heart of self-hate are feelings of deep unworthiness. Self-hate hides itself well by concealing its overpowering and intrusive nature. Meanwhile, it ruins most relationships. In order to hide the real feelings of hating ourselves, we end up playing things out in reality in some way. For instance, if I feel hatred towards myself, … Continue reading »

30 Nov

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, Comments Off

How do you love?

Everyone experiences love differently, and at different times. Even the meaning of love is extremely subjective. How do you love? Click here for a self-quiz and more information about healthy relationships. Carrie Tell me your story.

21 Nov

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, Comments Off

Do you have one true friend?

True friends say good things behind your back and bad things to your face. Do you have a true friend? Click here for a wealth of information about healthy relationships, including a self-quiz. Tell me your story. Carrie