Relationships

09 Oct

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, 3 Comments

You Don’t Attract the Wrong Men. You ACCEPT The Wrong Men.

Have you ever wondered why beautiful, intelligent and seemingly reasonable women are attracted to men that have heartbreak written all over them? Do you keep picking men who break your heart? Do you love someone who is incapable of loving you in the way that you need? Do you attach yourself to emotionally unstable men? … Continue reading »

01 Oct

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, Comments Off

If honesty is truly best for a happy life, then why do we avoid the truth?

At one time or another, we have all found ourselves in a situation that results in us telling a lie or two in order to avoid complications. Besides avoiding the consequences of our actions, there appears to be many reasons to avoid total honesty; such as trying to spare someone’s feelings, not wanting others to … Continue reading »

27 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, therapy, Comments Off

Love is giving someone the power to hurt you… and trusting they won’t.

It can be hard to understand why someone who is supposed to care about you can hurt you. And because you’re you – that beautiful, soft, loving, forgiving, understanding, compassionate, helpful, giving, caring, hopeful you – is exactly why you’re about to do the very worst thing you could do. You blame yourself. You start … Continue reading »

24 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, therapy, Comments Off

What kind of life do you truly deserve?

For many of us, there is a deep-rooted belief that we don’t deserve love, happiness and success. A large number of us are under the impression that we aren’t worthy enough of good things; so therefore, we believe we are supposed to suffer. If you feel that you don’t deserve love, you will inadvertently push … Continue reading »

23 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, therapy, Comments Off

Changing Minds.

All of us would like others to appreciate our point of view. But this is often easier said than done. When someone is resistant to changing their mind about something, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are stubborn or annoying but rather it can simply mean that somewhere in their belief system there is something … Continue reading »

22 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, depression, relationships, therapy, Comments Off

Still waiting?

Have you waited patiently for the people in your life to step up to the plate? Are you certain someone will come and help you? You’ve waited and waited, and nothing happens. No one comes to rescue you. The answer to all your questions lies within you. You experience all of your problems first hand; … Continue reading »

18 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, therapy, 2 Comments

The hardest thing vs the right thing.

Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same thing. “Never base your life decisions on advice from people who don’t have to deal with the results.” Let’s begin the journey. Carrie

16 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, therapy, 1 Comment

Mending fences.

Is holding grudges a tradition in your family? You’ll have to work on giving up your need to be right. Click here for help with relationship through Licensed Therapy online. Carrie

14 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, therapy, Comments Off

Appearance vs Reality.

We often make judgments based merely on opinion and without any knowledge about the truth of the matter. By confusing appearance with reality, we convince ourselves to believe in what we think rather than what we know. Most judgments we throw to others reflect our feeling of inadequacy. Do people misunderstand you, misread you and ultimately … Continue reading »

14 Sep

By Carrie Heinze-Musgrove, MA, LCPC, relationships, 1 Comment

Surround yourself with people who make you better.

If someone in your life makes you feel uncomfortable and insecure every time you are with him or her, no matter the reason, they probably don’t deserve a spot in your life. If they make you feel like you can’t be yourself, or if they make you feel “less than” in any way, don’t pursue … Continue reading »