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Closure is overated.

Closure implies finality; being able to let go of what once was. We are familiar with the concept of closure primarily when it comes to relationships. More specifically, when a relationship ends. Whether it is the ending of a relationship, loss of a family member, waiting for an apology, ending a stage of life, accepting … Continue reading »
Closure is overated.
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How many scars do we justify because we love the person holding the knife?

Have you made excuses for someone who left you? Are you fighting for affection and attention? Have you forgiven a jilted lover only to be cheated on again? Have you excused a friend’s behavior merely to have it backfire on you? Have you given a family member way too many chances? Have you experienced verbal, … Continue reading »
How many scars do we justify because we love the person holding the knife?
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If you give them the power to feed you, you also give them the power to starve you.

Do you play your relationships safe? Do you fail to stand up for yourself? Do you find yourself going overboard trying to please everyone by doing things you don’t really want to do? Do you feel you are unworthy of love and acceptance? Do you put your dreams on the back burner? Do you live … Continue reading »
If you give them the power to feed you, you also give them the power to starve you.
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“I’m sorry. “

Apologies are best if they’re done immediately after doing something wrong. However, sometimes it takes a little soul-searching in order to find the right words to say. Some apologies may take years. Some apologies never happen. It all depends on the people involved. Some people lack the self-esteem required to take responsibility for their less … Continue reading »
“I’m sorry. “