Perhaps you should hang up your wings.

Do you think you are being a good person by self-sacrificing? By giving and serving others? By letting your needs wait? By being selfless? By putting yourself last? We tend to hide the truth. We package it with a nice pretty bow and tell ourselves that we are being good or angelic. Self-sacrificing will eventually … Continue reading »
Perhaps you should hang up your wings.

Emotional Pain.

Acknowledging emotional pain may seem like an obvious step in the healing process that everyone is already doing. If you’re in pain, you already know it, right? Not necessarily. It is common for us to become practiced at denial of emotional pain in order to function in our lives. Unconsciously, we have learned how to … Continue reading »
Emotional Pain.

You get stronger.

It doesn’t necessarily get easier but YOU grow stronger and learn to deal with things. You learn to shut out the negative messages. You learn to love yourself. You learn how to survive and you learn that the opinions of others no longer matter. You learn to listen to your inner voice and trust your … Continue reading »
You get stronger.

Give up. Dwell. Or learn.

There are many disappointments in life. Time and energy that we blindly invest in opportunities and people often result in letdowns. All of us have been here at one time or another. We have been in this place just outside of our comfort zone; where self-doubt, negative thoughts, fear, misdirection and lack energy seem to … Continue reading »
Give up. Dwell. Or learn.